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Divorcing a Narcissist
HOW A NARCISSIST CAN COMPLICATE YOUR DIVORCE
One important step of the divorce process is settling the marital matters of property division, child custody, and any child and spousal support. These divorce disputes can be settled through trial or through negotiation, where both spouses can openly discuss an agreement between themselves. Cooperating and compromising outside of the courtroom can save time, money, and stress during a divorce. However, a narcissistic spouse may make this very difficult – or even impossible.
Some common narcissistic traits that might hinder or complicate divorce include:
- inflated self-importance and belief of superiority;
- excessive entitlement;
- expecting recognition and admiration;
- belittling others;
- expecting others to comply without question;
- not recognizing the feelings or needs of others;
- reacting with anger or vengeance when they do not get what they want;
What to Do When Divorcing a Narcissist
Divorce is a painful process. But if you’re divorcing a narcissist, it gets trickier. Narcissists frequently engage in manipulative and dominating behaviors, complicating and lengthening the process.
If you are in this situation, you need to know about all the difficulties of divorcing a narcissist. By being prepared, you can create plans for surviving and prospering through this trying period.
Understanding Narcissism
It can be challenging to agree with your spouse when you are going through a divorce. If that person is a narcissist, it could lead to more issues. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) has certain characteristics. These individuals may have:
- A consistent pattern of grandiosity
- An insatiable need for admiration
- A lack of empathy towards others
Along with that, they believe they are entitled to special privileges. Unfortunately, people with this disorder will not seek mental health treatment. As a result, they may live their lives with an undiagnosed condition.
Divorce for Business Owners
More Than 30 Years Of Experience, Prompt Access to Highly Qualified Valuation Experts
At The Law Office of J. Kevin Clark P.C. in Tarrant County, we have experience protecting the interests of business and commercial property owners, licensed professionals and their spouses in Texas divorce cases. Divorce for business owners and other aspects of complex property division are familiar territory for our legal team.
In essence, you may be confronting two divorces: one that ends your marriage and another that ends a business partnership. Especially after a long-term marriage with a family business involved, it is often necessary to determine which spouse will keep the business and whether a buyout of the other spouse is necessary. Attorney Kevin Clark works extensively with qualified business valuators and other experts in relevant fields to ensure that:
- You obtain your own solid, accurate business valuation using the right method and timing, which will depend on the type of business, its viability and profitability, and many other factors
Who Can File For An Uncontested Divorce in Texas?
While uncontested divorce is a simplified divorce process, it does not necessarily mean a “do-it-yourself” divorce. Do-it-yourself divorces often result in serious oversights and setbacks, including judges’ refusals to sign the required documents and approve the divorce. So, it is best to approach your uncontested divorce with the guidance of an experienced, diligent divorce lawyer in Fort Worth who can make sure all your spousal rights are being appropriately addressed.
Be aware that Texas divorce law restricts the uncontested divorce process to couples who meet the following criteria:
- both spouses agree on the “grounds” for the divorce;
- both spouses agree to end the marriage;
- neither spouse has an ongoing bankruptcy case;
- the couple doesn’t have minor children;
- neither spouse owns property together and do not have retirement benefits to divide; and
- neither spouse is seeking alimony.
The Custody Rights of Grandparents in Texas
Whether its taking care of their grandchildren while their parents are away or merely “spoiling” them (much to their parents’ dismay) Grandparents play an invaluable role in a child’s life. However, the relationship between grandparent and grandchild can be cut short by the divorce or separation of the parents. In some circumstances, many grandparents that believe that their grandchildren are not being adequately taken care of wish to obtain custody rights.
Unfortunately, under Texas law, grandparents have no automatic right to custody of their grandchildren. However, the law provides grandparents the ability to seek custody of their grandchildren in certain situations.
Seeking Custody
The easiest way for grandparents to be awarded custody is for the child’s parent to sign a power of attorney giving the grandparents the right to decide where the child lives and to make important decisions for the child. Aside from the difficulties of getting parents to consent to the power of attorney, a downside to this approach is that it is temporary, as the parents can change their mind and revoke the agreement at any time.
Spousal Support in Texas (Known as Alimony in Other States).
Spousal support in Texas (also called spousal maintenance) is a tool that is implemented to help balance a divorce-based financial discrepancy between exes. If one spouse experiences an economic downturn and the other has the financial means to help offset it, the court may order spousal support. Every instance of spousal support is based on the circumstances involved. Further, if you have questions or concerns related to spousal support in Texas, the best resource is an experienced Fort Worth spousal support attorney.
THE GENERAL GUIDELINES
In order to qualify for spousal support in the first place under Texas law, you must be unable to meet your reasonable minimum needs (in relation to your standard of living prior to divorce). If you are awarded spousal support, its duration will hinge upon a variety of factors, but the basic guidelines include the following:
Answering Questions of Paternity Under Texas Law.
Establishing paternity can be particularly important in Texas. In fact, many fathers often discover that their rights as a parent – such as rights to custody or visitation – often hinge upon paternity determinations, especially in circumstances in which a father is not wed to a child’s mother.
Alternatively, mothers may also find themselves needing to establish paternity, particularly if they want a court to order a father to paychild support. However, regardless of the situation, it is crucial for those involved in paternity disputes to become familiar with Texas law on the subject. For instance, in Texas, there are three ways in which paternity can be established: 1) by presumption, 2) by acknowledgment, and 3) by adjudication and court order.
PATERNITY PRESUMPTIONS IN TEXAS
Under Texas law, paternity of a child may be presumed in several circumstances, including when:
Understanding Child Support Enforcement in Texas
A number of Texas parents are delinquent on their child support and the state has ways of enforcing payments.
When parents decide to file for divorce, children involved in the separation are often forced to go through a financial and emotional transition. In order to minimize the dramatic financial changes that can take place during this hard time, Texas courts order the non-custodial parent to pay child support to the parent who maintains primary custody of the child. Child support can help parents pay for essentials, maintain solid ground and ultimately increase the child’s quality of life. Unfortunately, not all parents who are ordered to pay child support follow through with the obligation, and some children are left to struggle without the financial support they need and deserve.
Texas has a surprisingly high rate of parents who fail to pay child support. The Houston Chronicle reported that the state had more than 460,000 parents who were delinquent in their payments, which totaled nearly $11 million.