Questions to Ask When Negotiating for Joint Custody

 Posted on November 14, 2025 in Child Custody

In an amicable divorce between parents, both parties typically want to do what is best for the child. That said, even the most conflict-free custody cases can be difficult and time-consuming to resolve. To help work out a sustainable joint custody agreement, consider working with a Fort Worth family law attorney.

At The Law Office of J. Kevin Clark P.C., we know firsthand how stressful a divorce can be, especially for parents. Our firm will take the time to understand your unique situation so that we can help you reach a mutually agreeable resolution, factoring in where the child will live and how decision-making rights will be assigned.

Three Questions to Ask Your Co-Parent in Texas Custody Discussions

What Are the Child’s Needs?

In any child custody case, no matter how contested, the court’s concern will always lie with the child’s best interests (Texas Family Code Sec. 153.002). With that in mind, it is important that you and your co-parent put your child’s needs first – not only for your child’s physical health, but mental health as well.

When dividing physical custody and possession between residences, consider your child’s attachment to his or her community. Are friends and family close to each parent’s home? Will the child still be able to attend the same school? These sorts of questions can guide your joint custody decisions and help you work out a reasonable schedule of switching between homes.

Can You Work Together?

Maintaining a joint custody agreement for years – at least until the child reaches the age of majority – requires a high degree of cooperation between both parents. This includes figuring transportation, coordinating pick up and drop off times, and communicating about important issues like school and healthcare.

If one parent has primary decision-making authority, the other parent may not have to be consulted about every choice. Still, a typical custody arrangement involves regular communication about matters related to your child, even if you and your ex are not necessarily on friendly terms.

What Resources Do You Have?

Taking care of a child requires time, effort, and money. Depending on your living situation after a divorce, you might need more assistance to address your child’s needs, especially for stay-at-home parents who may not have been in the workforce for some time.

Your available resources may factor into the allocation of child custody, as the courts will consider the stability of each parent’s home. Public programs may be able to cover gaps in your available resources, along with additional assistance like child support or alimony. If you anticipate needing extra help, be sure to communicate with your co-parent and speak with an attorney who can advise you of your options.

Contact a Fort Worth, TX Child Custody Lawyer

Figuring out a joint custody agreement is an intimidating prospect full of legal complexities. At The Law Office of J. Kevin Clark P.C., our Fort Worth, TX family law attorneys can work closely with you in negotiations with your co-parent to make the process easier on you. To schedule a free consultation, call our offices at 817-348-6723 today.